Wednesday, January 11, 2012

no suicide noteWhat would you do if you found a suicide note that your 13 year old daughter wrote ?

Ok so if you were looking throw your child's diary and found a suicide note. But you asked her if the note was from her and she said NO that a friend wrote it. Would you believe your daughter that it was of her friend? after all this is your daughters diary!!

So what would you do would you believe her ?


BTW: this is what happened to me i was that 13 year old girl depressed!! maybe that was my cry for help but they didn't listen. later it on it lead to an eating disorder.
i did the same thing in my diary 2 years ago. I wanted someone to find it thats why i wrote it. don't believe that it was her friend it wasn't she is probably just afraid to tell you because she is afraid that you won't believe her. jno suicide noteust show her that you care without blowing up at her for even writing it and maybe she will talk. but don't wait to long because if she wrote it she was obviously thinking about it....
You shouldn't go through you daughters diary it's a invasion of space and can make her more depressed. Just sit her down and tAlk to her about how much she has to live for and how you felt that wY when u were her age
Talk to a doctor or therapist
take her to some counseling place or give her a little break from school
You could compare the handwriting from the letter to the handwriting in the diary. If it matches, it's hers. 13 Is the first year of being a teenager, she could be going through a lot of things. More then parentno suicide notes like to think. I'm surprised she wasn't mad about your being in her diary.
And I know this might be bad to say, but since you're already in there, you could maybe have a look see, to find out why she's feeling that way. If the letter is graphic, talk to a therapist, however, if it's not, then she may just want to feel like she matters. I wrote some really bad letters when I was her age, and it was mostly just because I didn't feel like anyone cared for me and wouldn't notice if I wasn't there anymore. You could have a mother-daughter day (or if your her father, sorry. lol) Maybe that would help her open up.

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