I've just been wondering this for awhile. I was reading an article and poems about this on this magazine site online talking about this. And I don't mean to be stereotypical but it is mostly, for me meaning that the girls that give me problems, the ghetto black girls meaning the ones that you always see giving people they don't like looks and glares and talking trash about everybody and never having anything nice to say, etc. Now I'm going off of what I see at my school so its most likely different for you. But for all girls in high school and middle school: why does this have to happen? Especially in this generation of teenagers it seems to get worse and worse. Some girls just can't accept each other or they just act so fake but once you leave...
I just don't understand. I really don't know what those girls have against me, but they've always talked about me the minute I walked into that school last year in Aug. as one of the new kids. I wasn't weird or anything but my hair 'wasn't done properly' according to them or they would make fun of it and other things too. And one of their friends already had a problem with me and I guess the more she told them about her disliking/hating of me, the more they tried to follow her because they obvioulsy live off each other. I just consider them haters and I used to cghetto hater poemsare but I learned that it just doesn't matter, only to them. Also another thing is I talk proper as a result form being in an dominantly white Catholic School for 7 years. But again, I don't care I take pride in the way I talk. But its not just me they dislike, but I seem to be one of their favorite people to hate on.
Anyways what are your views on this? What is up with all this girl on girl hate?!
** And for all the other black folks that my come on here and get offended I didn't mean for any offense this is just based off of what I see and I'm not talking about all black girls just the ones that live around me that act the way I stated above.
And to all the black women that may come on here stating they're good education, independence, job, money, etc. I'm talking about young ghetto black GIRLS ok not WOMEN.
Thanks =]
I know what you mean. I've always wondered this myself. I think that some girls are just that insecure. They feel so bad about their selves that they have to shoot other people down in order to get a confidence booster and to feel superior. They basically have to lie to their selves just to feel good. Don't sweat it too much if they talk about you. You don't know their reason for treating you so badly. Maybe they were abused or bullied as a younger child and this is how they gghetto hater poemset their emotions out. Just hold your head high and don't let them get to you. You'll be fine.
I know how you feel. This happened to me when I attended an elementary school with a lot of black students. I was the new girl. I was smart and shy and somehow thought of as a "teacher's pet". I'm a white girl and there were two black girls who saw fit to blame me for them getting in trouble for causing some trouble. They said I was a "snitch" and I had no idea what they were talking about. People are just jealous and have so much hate inside that they are looking to blame others.
Let's just see where they will end up in 10 years lol
and where you will end up in 10 years.
Don't mind them, at my school a lot of the black girls are really nice and everything, and some girls will hate on other girls no matter what. The best revenge is success
I see what you mean because i went to a black school and the girls were so caddy and mean and i go to a white school and the girls there are so nice and accepting ! but when you do go to high school trust me it will be soo much better ! but they won't be there to pay your bills in the future so why worry about them ?
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